Closing Cycle by Paulo Coelho

One always has to know when a stage comes to an end.

If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go through. Closing cycles, shutting doors, ending chapters – whatever name we give it, what matters is to leave in the past the moments of life that have finished.

Did you lose your job? Has a loving relationship come to an end? Did you leave your parents' house? Gone to live abroad? Has a long-lasting friendship ended all of a sudden?

You can spend a long time wondering why this has happened. You can tell yourself you won't take another step until you find out why certain things that were so important and so solid in your life have turned into dust, just like that.

But such an attitude will be awfully stressing for everyone involved: your parents, your husband or wife, your friends, your children, your sister, everyone will be finishing chapters, turning over new leaves, getting on with life, and they will all feel bad seeing you at a standstill.

None of us can be in the present and the past at the same time, not even when we try to understand the things that happen to us. What has passed will not return: we cannot for ever be children, late adolescents, sons that feel guilt or rancor towards our parents, lovers who day and night relive an affair with someone who has gone away and has not the least intention of coming back.

Things pass, and the best we can do is to let them really go away.

That is why it is so important (however painful it may be!) to destroy souvenirs, move, give lots of things away to orphanages, sell or donate the books you have at home. Everything in this visible world is a manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going on in our hearts – and getting rid of certain memories also means making some room for other memories to take their place.

Let things go. Release them. Detach yourself from them. Nobody plays this life with marked cards, so sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. Do not expect anything in return, do not expect your efforts to be appreciated, your genius to be discovered, your love to be understood. Stop turning on your emotional television to watch the same program over and over again, the one that shows how much you suffered from a certain loss: that is only poisoning you, nothing else.

Nothing is more dangerous than not accepting love relationships that are broken off, work that is promised but there is no starting date, decisions that are always put off waiting for the "ideal moment." Before a new chapter is begun, the old one has to be finished: tell yourself that what has passed will never come back. Remember that there was a time when you could live without that thing or that person – nothing is irreplaceable, a habit is not a need. This may sound so obvious, it may even be difficult, but it is very important.

Closing cycles. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because that no longer fits your life. Shut the door, change the record, clean the house, shake off the dust.

Stop being who you were, and change into who you are.

spur of the moment.

i learned that someone does not GENUINELY love you
if you feel used and second-rated...
I learned that choosing better is loving deeper..
Coz if you really love a person there is NO ROOM FOR EXCUSES,
NO CHANCES FOR MISTAKES and NO USE HOLDING BACK

You can't turn back time and hope everything's gonna be alright
AND YOU KNOW IT!
Some things are gonna change, Some things will change
and some things are changing!!!

But really, come to think of it... IT'S YOU WHO NEEDS CHANGE!

Loving is a right, but being loved is a privileged. You dont get it with FAKE SWEET WORDS, You don't lose it wothout RATIONALITY AND CONSENT and you can't take it back with a MILLION PATHETIC APOLOGIES..

Because sometime taking it all back is a desperate call for nothing...
and chances are the person you thought was not the one for you, turns out to be the PERFECT one for you...

and that one perfect thing in your life... HAS FINALLY MOVED ON....



.:Cry you FOOL:.

wala lang..hamberdey

One Big Fat Lie

It’s my fault. I knew it right from the start but I “overlooked the obvious”. I placed myself vulnerable to pain and it’s killing me now.

Not one moment was true, not a single word uttered was real, no feelings were ever genuine..

It was all a big fat lie…

Happy now?

......

Simple lang gusto ko sa buhay.. maging masaya.. sino ba naman may ayaw ng ganun diba.. pero minsan may mga bagay na nagpapasaya sayo pero hindi na tama. Panu mo ba malalaman kung dapat nang itigil ang isang bagay? Sa totoo lang, hindi mo malalaman, kusang darating sayo ung dahilan para itigl na kahit alam mong masasaktan ka.. bigla mo nalng sasabihin.. ayoko na tama na.. at magdedesisyon kang ayaw mo na talaga.. pero diba may maliit na parte sa puso mong umaasang babalik ung dati? Kaso hindi na ganun ang sitwasyon eh, kasi maraming nandididikta,minsan umaayon na sayo pati sitwasyon na itigil na nga..nawawalan ka na rin ng dahilan para sumama sa kanya..parang mas marami ang hindi umaayon kesa sa umaayon..pero alam mong masasaktan ka.. pero bat mo parin pinili ung daan na un? Kasi gusto mong malaman ng mundo ang halaga mo,para ipahiwatig sa mundong hindi naging patas ang pagtrato nito sayo, para maramdaman mong hindi ka lang malaking espasyo sa mundo, na pinanganak ka para kailanganin ng mundo..

Hindi sa lahat ng pagkakataon kaya ng tao na ipaglaban ang bagay na mahal niya.. siguro kasi hindi na siya makahanap ng matimbang na dahilan para lumaban.. at nagmumukhang wala na rin patutunguhan kung lumaban pa..

Siguro hanggang dito nalang talaga ung kwento..

Pero sinisugardo ko na naging magandang kwento ka sa buhay ko…

Insensitive

I feel betrayed..

I feel dumped..

I feel lied to..

I feel foolish..

I feel bad..

I feel fucked up..

I feel trashed…

I feel taken for granted…

I feel hopeless..

Time passes…

People change…

I HATE YOU!!!

Siya lang kasi ang MAGALING

Siya lang ang kasi MAGALING

Panong nakalipad ung eroplano sa langit…
SIYA LANG KASI ANG MAGALING..
Panong nakakalutang ang barko sa karagatan..
SIYA LANG KASI ANG MAGALING
Paano nagkakulay ang mundo…
SIYA LANG KASI ANG MAGALING
Paano nakakasend ng mga text sa ibat ibang cellphone..
SIYA LANG KASI ANG MAGALING
Paano naisip ang magbuo ng daan, tulay at eskinita?
SIYA LANG KASI ANG MAGALING
Saan nanggaling ang mga letra, at salita?.
SIYA LANG KASI ANG MAGALING
Saan nanggaling ang mga ibon at isda at iba pang mga halaman..
SIYA LANG KASI ANG MAGALING
Saan nagpupunta ang araw paglumulubog ito
SIYA LANG KASI ANG MAGALING
Saan nagsimula ang internet at mga gadgets
SIYA LANG KASI ANG MAGALING
Saan nagpupunta ang tao pag namatay….
SIYA LANG KASI ANG MAGALING
Bakit pumapatak ang luha..
SIYA LANG KASI ANG MAGALING
Bakit nakapikit pagnatutulog…
SIYA LANG KASI ANG MAGALING
Bakit tumatanda…
SIYA LANG KASI ANG MAGALING
Bakit kelangan ng egg cell ni sperm cell..
SIYA LANG KASI ANG MAGALING
Bakit gagawin pa kung mali pala..
SIYA LANG KASI ANG MAGALING
Bakit nagtitiis kung naghihirap…
SIYA LANG KASI ANG MAGALING
Bakit madameng tanong na walang kasagutan…
SIYA LANG ANG MAKASASAGOT..
SIYA LANG KASI ANG MAGALING..

*kilala mo na ba?